He and I dated over the summer and I said in the very beginning that I didn't want anything committed. Things got a bit more serious, which I was okay with, but I thought he knew we still weren't going to be fully "together". He's just been super clingy and I've been drifting away because of it. Last night I told him I wanted to end things because I just wasn't in the place to be in a relationship, like I'd said in the beginning.
Now he is setting ultimatums like saying he won't talk to me ever if we break up. I don't really know what to do. I'd like to hang out with him normally, but I don't think that's possible. We're continuing the conversation later. How do I let him down easily?
Most Helpful Guy
At this stage, there's little point trying to let him down easily since he's getting weird. Just be brief and firm, and then leave. Don't waste your time trying to keep him as a friend, it's not worth it.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
Tell him, being this Honest Jane just the same, you are so sorry he feels like this but perhaps it is Best from the Rest to just End the friendship then.
Perhaps holding the carrot over these stubborn mule may be Now a horse of another color and if you swing it back and forth enough, he just Might... Bite and see it your Way without all the 'Hay.'
Good luck. xx0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE