Me and my girlfriend broke up a week ago and i thought I was doing fine becuase I was happy and hanging out with my friends and trying my best to keep me active and not think about her. But recently everything is reminding me of her. I had a dream about her and us playing soccer together. Also, this morning during class people were reading their essays out loud and I wasn't paying attention until they said "I love you to the moon and back", which is what my girlfriend told me. Now I'm struggling and its getting harder and harder. I find myself thinking about whats she's doing right now becuase she has the same schedule everyday. Any advice on how to get her out of my head and forgeting about her?
Most Helpful Girl
Have you Both Considered Being friends?
Just because two people BreakUp doesn't mean they can't ans don't MakeUp and that it's Good-bye, my love, forever. And with an "EX" who still Marks an X in your own softie spot, @je215161, it has Only been a week so naturally you are Weak and you have found out Now That... I had a dream about her.
You are Missing the Kissing and the history you both shared. After the free fall has worn off and you are back on the ground with a reality check of the Ex chick, all memories of the "Way we were" comes to mind, leaving you day dreaming down this love line.
If you are in this situation where you are Not going to be friends till the end or there isn't any way today of getting back with her as two birds of a feather, it Will be hard at Fist and at 'First' glance every chance your eyes meet. However, with time, busy life styles and just blending and mending, time does heal all wounds.
For now, be strong, Stay focused on other things in school and mix with your other friends so you can Adapt to the Single life now.
Good luck. xx0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Guy
You've had a massive mental blow. Of course it is natural to feel the way you do. I've been split from my ex for 2 months now. I still think about her, not a lot now but it is much easier to handle now. I'm doing a lot better than those early days of the breakup. It will get easier. Take each day as it comes. 1 day at a time. Get through it and it's another victory for you. I know that right now you feel that you need a connection with her even as a friend. Truth is. Its impossible for now. Best advice I can give is give yourself a month of no contact so you can work on yourself.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE