Me and my girlfriend broke up a week ago and i thought I was doing fine becuase I was happy and hanging out with my friends and trying my best to keep me active and not think about her. But recently everything is reminding me of her. I had a dream about her and us playing soccer together. Also, this morning during class people were reading their essays out loud and I wasn't paying attention until they said "I love you to the moon and back", which is what my girlfriend told me. Now I'm struggling and its getting harder and harder. I find myself thinking about whats she's doing right now becuase she has the same schedule everyday. Any advice on how to get her out of my head and forgeting about her?
Most Helpful Girl
Have you Both Considered Being friends?
Just because two people BreakUp doesn't mean they can't ans don't MakeUp and that it's Good-bye, my love, forever. And with an "EX" who still Marks an X in your own softie spot, @je215161, it has Only been a week so naturally you are Weak and you have found out Now That... I had a dream about her.
You are Missing the Kissing and the history you both shared. After the free fall has worn off and you are back on the ground with a reality check of the Ex chick, all memories of the "Way we were" comes to mind, leaving you day dreaming down this love line.
If you are in this situation where you are Not going to be friends till the end or there isn't any way today of getting back with her as two birds of a feather, it Will be hard at Fist and at 'First' glance every chance your eyes meet. However, with time, busy life styles and just blending and mending, time does heal all wounds.
For now, be strong, Stay focused on other things in school and mix with your other friends so you can Adapt to the Single life now.
Good luck. xx0
Most Helpful Guy
There is no quick fix, except getting back together. However, in time you will move on. And certainly keeping busy is the right mind set but to truly move on its not going to take a week.
It's gonna suck, it's gonna hurt, and it may feel like your life is over. But in time you'll realize it from your heart and your brain that there is someone better than her. And there will be someone who will like you for you and will treat you better than her. Trust me, I was there not too long ago.
And its going to hurt more if you see her with someone else– but the best thing you can do for yourself is get yourself out there and start talking to girls. Have that testosterone and pheromones pumping again.
You may realize in a month you aren't going to want to contact her. Honestly 2 months can be better. She won't forget about you because you've both obviously made a place for each other in both of your hearts. Considering your broke up twice... well she drew the line and I don't know details but you both need to work on yourselves.
But whatever you do, don't let yourself down. Don't droop your head and look sad. Keep your head up, stay confident, stand tall, and just force a smile on your space. Those are key characteristics.0