My partner and I were arguing about a misunderstanding and he called me a very hurt full word he has never said anything like it in the years I've known him, I almost can't forgive him it was really hurt full if he loved me would he have said or thaught this?
Most Helpful Guy
in short Yes
unfortunately we sometimes hurt those we love. sometimes we even hurt those we love more than others. it doesn't mean it's excusable but it isn't out of the realm of possibility.1
Most Helpful Girl
Some people lose their temper.
He has had a grip on it all of these years. I know it hurts you, but I don't think you should let that one time he lost it , ruin how you view him.
He's human !
If he's apologetic I think you should accept.
Tell him how much he hurt you and the extent at which is words made you feel.
Tell him how it made things in your mind almost non repairable.
If he understands the level of hurt he caused you , I can almost guarantee he won't use those words again.
Someone who loves you, yes makes mistakes.
But will not continue to hurt you when you let your feelings be known.