My partner and I were arguing about a misunderstanding and he called me a very hurt full word he has never said anything like it in the years I've known him, I almost can't forgive him it was really hurt full if he loved me would he have said or thaught this?
Most Helpful Guy
in short Yes
unfortunately we sometimes hurt those we love. sometimes we even hurt those we love more than others. it doesn't mean it's excusable but it isn't out of the realm of possibility.1
Most Helpful Girl
People throw a lot at one another when Angry and mad, @everyoneloves and no one really means what they actually say Most of the time that day.
However, it still stings, still rings in your own ears, and still cannot be forgotten, hard to forgive sometimes as well.
If it is Hard to Swallow because it is Not such music to your ears you have never heard before, it might take some time down this fine line to Forgive and to Forget.
Love hurts, as the old saying goes. And he most likely does love you but what he may be feeling has been bottled up inside he may have Not meant for it to Come out as Much as it did like a sour ball and all.
Open lines of convo is one of the most important factors in any new or old relationship. It takes two to tango and two to tangle and also To... Untangle the best of a mess.
Good luck. xx1