I think he likes this girl in his area. I'm pretty certain she's the lead singer of the band he's in. This sounds stupid, but I see him liking most of the photos she puts on herFacebook page. I've also realised her facial features kind of look like me too.
I asked him if he likes someone so soon and he told me to stop asking stupid questions and said 'who says I like someone?' Out of pure defense, I told him I would confront her myself if he was unwilling to answer any of my questions and he got defensive telling me if I did, he would block me from everything because he didn't want his ex to be asking his friends paranoid questions.
I know what I've stated may make me phsyco, but I've been told more likely than most, my gut instinct is always right. If so, do you think the rebound relationship would work between them, considering they live near one another?
I'm not over our relationship and as stupid as you may think I sound, I want us to get back together.
Most Helpful Guy
To want or not to want, tell me all about it. An undecided heart for what you feel for is the worst, a mind can be made up. Anyway, don't be disturbed by it, it's normal in that case of mr. lover that he prefers to reboun and ofcourse by picking a look-a-like because actually he isn't really over you either, but tries to continue like nothing did happen besides a switch of girlfriend ;) not the nicest thing to do, but it tends to happen. This guy seems honest, but rude at the same time, hoping to forget you very very fast and replacing you even faster! I would say that the best thing you could do is just learn from the situation, and once you do you will accept the fact he did so and you will get over it for your own emotional health. Good luck with that.1
Most Helpful Girl
H e ended it with you because of a Not so close stone's throw, but then ended up with a 'Girl in this area' who he May feel Has more than Meets the eye.
You Need to stop Asking him Questions that you probably already have surmised with the guy. He will only Back away even More Into the arms of the other.
Yes, she could be a 'Rebound,' however even though with '3 years between us' and a '2 hour train journey,' it seems he is all enthralled in his own fantasy world of a 'Lead singer' and found that Distance was worth its weight in gold.
Begin your own Beguine of focusing on you and going slow with any Joe now that you may want one day to make sweet music with. Your EX who still Marks an X in your own softie spot, may live out his dreams for awhile but in the end, like many musicians, comparing the relationship to This... It has a way of becoming washed up and old and just a memory.
He may discover he doesn't love her and Misses the Kisses with you and the History he shared with you.
Stand in the background for now, however, don't be a Follower or some groupie that wastes her Precious time on a fine line right now.
Good luck. xx1