After our breakup 1 year ago, I began dating someone else and I'm still with that person. When my ex heard about my new rship, he text me some horrible things, I'd respond just as nastily, then he'd respond back nastily, etc - this went on for roughly 2 months here and there. And then one day, he fell off the grid. He deleted all social media accounts, blocked me from calling or texting and even blocked me from his email. After he went MIA for approx 4 months, I saw a new FB account of his and I decided to send a FB request. He declined and sent me a nice message saying he hopes all is well with me. I then asked if he was seeing anyone and he said yes, he's in a 3 month rship and he's happy. He then blocked me from that account even tho we were not FB friends. I got an email today that said: "Jaimie, don't take offense from me blocking u in all areas of communication. I had to do it for my own health. I was in great despair when we broke up and you moved on so quickly, it's hard to describe how I felt, but it was painful and I felt in despair. And then one day I decided that I had enough of feeling so sad. I decided to make changes in my life. I began to see things logically and not from emotions, I was then able to heal and move on. Going no contact was for my health benefit. In case you are curious, I'm very happy now. And I wish u nothing but happiness and love, too. Take care, Jim.
wtf? Manipulation? Trying to make me feel bad?
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No, he is trying to explain why he did some of the things he did and let you know in a way that he feels some guilt about it and he doesn't want to cause you pain because of those choices he made for himself. You should take it at face value, thank him for letting you know and wish him the best and let him know you are doing fine as well. Then go on about your life like he never existed.0