The last thing I said to my ex was "happy thanksgiving" and he didn't respond. Should I say anything to him, make another step towards being friends? Or should I interpret this as a sign that he doesn't want to talk, or be friends? I wish I knew what he was thinking...because I still talk to his friends sometimes, but they don't give any hint of anything. I still have mild feelings for him, but we broke up in September and I feel like I've moved on and made a lot of progress since then.
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Hmm usually I'd take it as a sign that he's not really interested in being friends right now or it could be that he does still have feelings for you also but doesn't want to act on them and wants to get rid of them by not contacting you. Out of sight, out of mind.
It's good that you're progressing and not wasting any time on a dead relationship but since you still have some sort of feelings towards him, I think you should wait it out until you're feelings are completely non-existent. Friendship is possible with an ex but you got to be patient and let him come to you now. Doesn't matter if he does decide to talk to you or not, you moved on and that's worth a lot.0