this is pretty much on cheating. for women because there plenty for the men:
and how a woman cheats and always seems have an excuse for why and has all these reasons. men cheat as well, we all know this. wait I should say SUM men and women cheat excuse me, my apologies. but any way, you ask a guy why he cheated and he just look at you with a blank stare because there is no reason, he just a fiend has one thing on his mind or whatever. but you ask a woman and she got a list,
such as, he doesn't make me feel like a woman, he doesn't please me, or can't satisfy in bed or we don't have sex as much anymore,i was lonely and the all famous he wasn't there for me.
so please some one tell me, are these really good enough reasons to cheat? and When you do cheat you go crying to you mom or you best friend, saying things like I love him I don't want to lose him. if so why do it, we all know you sure weren't thinking bout him when you was humping and sucking on your ex or whoever. why not just end the relationship if you are so sad, oh wait, right because you love him. that's a lie because you just stabbed your love in the back.
how can you betray someone and still say you love them then when confronted you try to justify it in an argument, like you actions were forced saying things like(I get a kick outta this one) "you made me do it"
or "this is as much as your fault as it is mine" no one put a gun to your head no one forced you. YOU made the CHOICE to do it, not me. meaning you knew what you were doing. when something isn't right or going the way you think they should go, you look for what's missing with another man meanwhile, as I stated above, still loving the man your betraying. you feel distant from your man so you cheat, how can that possibly bring you closer lol.
so yea can anyone give me an answer to that? and a good one, one that makes sense
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aha I'm not gona make sense, as I have never cheated on someone.
I define been cheated on as when your in a relationship with someone, boyfriend and gf.
anyway in my eyes I think its ridiculous when people cheat like you said be single if you wana screw around.
I have had males make moves on me whilst they have a gf, they chat me up, sweet talk me to get in my pants me not knowing they have a girlfriend most of the time and then I find out they do.
Its so pathetic it makes me wana puke when I find out later that they had a partner so disrespectful and it makes me feel like the girl who he used to revenge on his girl.
I think some people cheat cus they know they can get away with it. with curtain partners of course and they know maybe he/she will forgive them.
Its low and I know a lot of males think of me as a cheater an that also hurts aswell :(
i haven't had a serious relationshipbefore an guys tend to think I wouldn't be able to control myself if a guy came my way if I was in a relationship with them!
I don't know why guys think that of me I guess it all comes down to insecure an trust.
but there is no excuse if your in a relationship to cheat that's why you are together cus you a serious bout one another and don't wana be with anyone else. be interesting if some cheaters replied to this convo.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE