Most Helpful Guy
Sounds like he's gone for good and that's just as well if he's that jealous and possessive.
Most Helpful Girl
Why was he going through your phone in the first place? Cheaters always assume their partner is also cheating, and look for excuses to leave, without having to confess to their crimes. Sounds like he was looking for excuses to leave without looking like the bad guy. Not enough evidence to suggest that he was cheating, but he definitely wanted out of this relationship. Sounds like he was a selfish coward. Good riddance!