the problem here now is that I haven't actually don't think I can feel for anyone more than I feel for her but as an extreme introvert, I usually just prefer to be at home and do nothing. she gets tired of this occasionally and we usually end up in an argument.
My question is that is "love" different for everyone? Do some people feel it subtly as opposed to like an intense fire? Am I making a mistake in breaking up with her or am I just being clingy, and will eventually stop missing her? I don't really see my self falling for anyone more than I do for her and there is also my antisocial nature.
Most Helpful Girl
If you Both have been together as two birds of afeather 'Forever,' and have Grown as One but your fires have gone out some because time has crossd that fine line Then... You are Not alone.
It happens in many relationships where cozy and comfort often Supercede Hot smouldering rocks and One begins to then think that the relationship as gone on The... Rocks.
You will start Missing the Kissing now. I see the sure signs of someone who already has this softie spot in his heart for his "EX" who still Marks a Big X in there somewhere, and also you may find being somewhat Blue... It isn't always greener on the other side of the fence.
Give yourself this time and space to realize to your own surprise That... I don't really see myself falling for anyone more than I Do... Or have you already discovered it with just 'Today' and this Breakup that probably was the Biggest mistake of your whole life here, dear.
Good luck. xx
Most Helpful Guy
I do believe that love is different for everyone. Each one of us wants different things when it comes to love such as: how much intimacy, amount of conversation between the two, lifestyles, etc. Because of these factors I believe everyone has their own definition of love, except for the common idea of caring for a person deeply.
As for your question on whether you will ever love someone again I think you will in time. Even though you may be an introvert I'm sure somewhere along the way you'll find someone else whom you may love. I just think right now that you feel like you won't' ever love anyone else like her because maybe she is your first girlfriend?
In time you will stop missing her, but this time is different for every person and could be from a week to months or even years.
And just to give my own opinion on what you've said so far about the relationship, it seems like she doesn't care for your lifestyle then you shouldn't be with her. Seems like she needs someone who likes to go out every now and then and that someone isn't you. If you do continue to be together then she needs to accept this or no longer be with you because if she doesn't accept it then you'll just keep having the same argument