Towards the end of our relationship (9 months), he got really nasty and said some mean things to me. We first broke up for a month at the 7-month mark and he said pretty mean things to me then to. He said, 'he didn't care about me, he didn't care if I say other guys, and he just basically didn't care'. It was stupid to get back together with him but I was too heartbroken. The next two months were very rocky, with him being distant and saying hurtful things to me. He trashtalked about me to his friends when we were broken up so they started being disrespectfal of me. I brought it up and he started getting defensive, never doing anything to help me feel better. After a while, I couldn't take it anymore so I broke up with him but all he said was 'ok, I was thinking of the same thing anyways'. I tried texting him the other day, and all his replies were one worded. I'm bitter and pretty sad about what happened, and was wondering if he meant all those hurtful comments he said to me. I was also wondering if he would ever get a wake up call and realize that he was treating me badly?
Most Helpful Guy
Some hard advice... Move on. Deep down he knows he is an ass, but he probably isn't going to tell you. So quit (and that is easier said than done) wasting your emotions on him and move on to someone that wants you.0
Most Helpful Girl
It sounded as though with all of his hurtful Hymns and haws that he didn't have any Respect for you, nor cared enough to really give it his best and Now... He is probably feeling it's better that you both are not together so he doesn't have to continue this full circle problem pattern of Keeping it going and flowing.
People like this loser have no consciousness, they are too self centered and only think of themselves. He is free now, he is feeling Great about that.
However, I will be fair when I say, that there could come a day, when he is Missing the Kissing and just being able to be himself with someone who accepted his demon ways Unconditionally. No one will put up with him like you and he will see That at least.
Good luck. xx0