My ex boyfriend walks in and out of my life constantly. The first time we dated for 6 months before he decided he didn't want me anymore. 4 months later he came back and we dated again for 2 months. Then he left and came back 2 months later. We dated for 3 months. Recently he decided he was leaving again. The second time he came around he told me that the reason he left was because he's scared of commitment, but then why come back a 3rd time if he knew he was just going to leave again? I treat him the best I possibly can. I always put so much effort into him and I'm very loyal. We were both each other's first kiss, and first everything sexual beyond that point as well. I spoil him more than he spoils me. I love surprising him with random gifts. I make him feel appreciated every second of every day. I try to do anything I possible can to make him smile. He knows I would do anything for him. He always told me how much he loves the effort I put in. If he has a good girl who loves him, why does he keep leaving if he ends up coming back anyways?
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Three Strikes and he is now OUT, @Luvbug78. He has Proven Again and Again his true colors and this zebra will Never change his silly stripes.
He has told you, shown you, he doesn't want to be hooked at the hip and with no hymning nor hawing, he is doing this Full circle problem pattern that will never end, my friend, no matter how many times he comes back. He always makes lame duck excuses for leaving.
You are this Enabler for him to Continue down a Boyish beaten path. You are kind, loyal and do too much for this fickle pickle and he just turns around at every heart beat, and pulls a not so Nice Koshore act on you.
Forget him. Do not take him back. He will only go back to the "Way we were" and stab you in The... Back.
His cold feet go with his cold demeanor.
Good luck. xx0
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