Most Helpful Guy
It seems to me you're trying so much to make this relationship work
Most Helpful Girl
With all of these negative things that you seem to acknowledge about your boyfriend , why are you with him? Are you really surprised at his behavior? Given how he usually operates I couldn't even raise a brow at his reaction because his behavior is typical of him.
I think you should worry little about the dvds and more about your well being.
You deserve so much better than what you allow yourself to receive.
Break up with him and move on.
A man that respects , loves and cares for you wouldn't treat you like trash.