My ex and I began slowly dating again. We broke up because of fights which started from, at the beginning of our relationship he had messaged a girl and invited her over to his new place. Nothing ever came on it but when I found out I was extremely hurt and anytime he got a text from a girl I became very upset. It caused our break up. Everything was going well until I found out he became facebook friends with her. I was furious after how much pain that caused. I went over to his place this morning when I found out. Knocked on his door, tried to talk to him and he closed the door on me. I continued to knock and he called the police on me and had his friend video tape me. I discussed the issue with the police. I've never felt compelled to ever show up to someones house unannounced. I don't know if he cheated on me but feeling that way was the worst feeling in the world. I don't know what to do? I went with my feelings and felt i needed to speak to him about the issue at hand. The police said do not contact him, he said he may contact you in a couple of days.
We decided to go to the same school back when we were together. He is getting his doctorate, I'm getting my masters. I know no one here, he's the only person I know. This is extremely hard and my head is all over the place.
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Forget Him here, dear. He is in no way the kind of guy you should be wasting your time or your energy on. It's the writing on the wall that doesn't have to be etched in stone that it is Over, and with him even calling the cops to rescue him, he Now Wants... The door closed on me.
There is nothing you can do to change the mind and heart of a loser and no lover Nor soul mate. However, if you d Persist to harass him, it will only lead down more of a badly beaten path, a War of the Roses, Huge fines and even.. Jail time, should it really get out of hand.
What to do? No contact. Get your 'Head' put on Right now. Begin a fresh Beguine of thinking of Only you now. History will only repeat itself and I have his number, you should have it Too... Don't become one more statistic because of someone who is a villain in his own right.
Good luck. xx2
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