I'm going to text my ex today, but I'm debating if I should ask her if she still has a couple of my things (because she does) and when I can get them back or just say hey whats up or something like that. Which one should I do? I want the conversation to last the longest it can. If I ask her if she has a couple of my things then the conversation won't last more than a few minutes but it gurantees a response. If I say hey whats up? then I risk her not responding, but if she does then the conversation can go for a while. Which one should I do?
- Say "Hey, do you still have my stuff?"Vote A
- Say "Hey whats up?"Vote B
- Say something else (what should I say then?)Vote C
Most Helpful Girl
There's no guarantee you will get your things back no matter how you respond.
How much resent she has towards you... may allow her to keep your things no matter how greatly you interact with her.
If your things are valuables and you want them back, I would go to the police station about it.
It's very possible if she's filled with vengeance she may destroy your things or throw it again (leaving no proof of it ever existing).
If you don't want to take that route... just initiate conversation by saying, "Hey, what's up?"
But still understand that is no guarantee you will get your things back.
You may have to just accept that lost if you choose to do nothing about it.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Guy
if you want a resposne you can:
send an incomplete text which is cut off: "I forgot abo"
or send an ambiguous text, which looks like it's for someone else: "Hey what time are you going to be here? Don't forget to bring my backpack."0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE