I'm going to text my ex today, but I'm debating if I should ask her if she still has a couple of my things (because she does) and when I can get them back or just say hey whats up or something like that. Which one should I do? I want the conversation to last the longest it can. If I ask her if she has a couple of my things then the conversation won't last more than a few minutes but it gurantees a response. If I say hey whats up? then I risk her not responding, but if she does then the conversation can go for a while. Which one should I do?
- Say "Hey, do you still have my stuff?"Vote A
- Say "Hey whats up?"Vote B
- Say something else (what should I say then?)Vote C
Most Helpful Girl
Don't start off with asking her Anything But... How are you? How are you doing?
Make the convo light and semi sweet, civil and friendly and then, be strategic here, dear, when you get to the Parting part Of... She still has a couple of my things.
You can get more bees than you can with the vinegar so go easy, @je2015161
Good luck. xx1
Most Helpful Guy
It's your stuff, go get it. Beat on her if she steals it.0