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I, @Dcman, probably know more about LDR than anyone on GAG. I still have a husband out in Egypt whom I am hoping will divorce me now because we Breakup and Makeup all of the time and with me Not having gone back in a long while to be with him, I feel it is Best for both of us.
Just tell her you feel that LDR is not for you right now. Tell her you feel that with being in different states, it might be best for you both jus to go about your own lives now but maybe be friends instead.
This sounds like a Full circle problem pattern that will just continue.
Good luck., xx0