Most Helpful Guy
because he'd rather think about pretty much anything other than your relationship, and the bar is a good place to do that. chatting with friendly people and attractive girls makes it easier to get over whatever issues the two of you have. also, drinking is fun.1
Most Helpful Girl
Soaking his sorrows in the sauce.
If he has been Known to drink but controlled it with you, then after this split, he may have gone on a bar binge and That could become a problem pattern down the fine wine line.
Good luck. xx0