I really need to spare his feelings as much as I can. I ended it 5 months ago. He was heart-broken. I thought I'd moved on and met a new guy. 2 months ago, my ex got in touch and although he had a new girlfriend, said he wanted me back. Last week I thought I made a decision to take my ex back and told him yes. Then I went to end it with the new guy (just dating, not bf) and realised how much I like the new guy & changed my mind again. I feel terrible because its my exes b'day next week. The whole experience has been very painful, it has been so hard to decide but now i need to figure out how to let him down again. :(
Most Helpful Guy
Just say that... Your hormones made you react quickly and not on how you feel.
He wouldn't question it since girls have periods and some guys think it gross and others would just be supportive and not ask too much questions.
Also say sorry and that you want to make it up to him.
Not going to lie. He won't be happy nor glad.
But do it before he makes plans or breakup with his girlfriend...0
Most Helpful Girl
Things may not be so green on the other side of the fence with the newbie. However, it may always be as well a Full citrcle problem pattern with an "EX" who still Marks an X in his own softie spot and with this Love Triangle, something has to be done because this isn't having Fun for Anyone here, dear.
I believe you are muddle brained and confused as al hell right now. You are being torn and tossed around by two guys that are causing conflicts in your life with strife and toying with your heart.
Sit down with your new guy who isn't even a soul mate and tell him you ant to go slow and no strings attached. Tell him you just came out of a relationship with another and you want to take baby steps in nursing and nurturing something that could be potentially special.
Talk to your "EX" and whether you feel fact to face or calling him up is best for you, what I feel is 'Best for you' is lay it on the fine line this time that you don't want to hurt him again, you have been thinking and friends for now is the Best way to go until you really know.
Good luck. xx0