Meaning.. should you listen to your brain more or your heart more in situations like these?
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Honestly I don't know... My ex and I have been or I guess say were together for 7 years and we have children ya we had our share of problems and some were big but I never ever thought he would literally get up and leave. He left and lived with a girl for about 3 months and now met some one less a month ago and apparently she is the love of his life. Things are super bad between us and it's a long story but even after all the pain and manipulation and lies I still deeply care for him and having a really hard time picturing my future without him. I have a really bad feeling that his new girl is bad news and no I'm not jealous but I honestly feel things are seriously wrong with the whole situation. My mind says I need to just stay out of it and let things fall apart on there own. My heart wants to catch him when he falls but I know I shouldn't do that. His family wants him to hit rock bottom and I agree. Basically I think you should follow your gut instinct in this situation.0