I'm not sure how to say this without offending him though.
Also, if I start dating someone else clearly this can't continue. Yet he talks about sitting down and all having a drink together if I'm dating someone, and he has to make sure he's good enough for me and all this stuff... And ummm 😟 I don't think that's gonna work for me...
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I think he's still in love with you. He probably thinks if he keeps sending you sweet messages and doing things for you, you might chance your mind one day. I understand that you don't want to be rude, but ignoring his messages or things that he does to you is a polite way to tell him to get out of your life.