I've been seeing my boyfriend since the summer, and have really fallen for him. He's leaving in June for work and from the beginning we've always said we would break up when that time comes as neither of us is interested in trying long distance.
My problem is that I really want to go with him. I'm at a point in my own career where I would like to find a new job anyway, but how do I bring it up? We've always talked about how breaking up is inevitable. I know he's really invested in the relationship right now but my fear is that he thinks of it as "temporary"?
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How far away is the move?
before bringing it up with him, I would look at job opportunities there, and housing for yourself. I would also express how you feel about him before telling him your ideas. have you told each other you love one another? that way you know how invested he really is in this relationship.1