After a breakup, they've completely changed. Has anyone else gone through this?
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He's protecting himself. He was hurt just as you were. He's trying to see if there is something still there without getting too invested in case there isn't.2
You need to tell him everything that you just told us.
I've never gone through this, but it does seem like it makes you uncomfortable. For that reason, you need to confront him or you'll just be setting yourselves up for failure again.
Tell him that you feel like he's changed. Tell him you miss the old him. Ask him if something is wrong, if he wants to talk about it.
If he doesn't go back to being himself, the relationship will go no where. Give him some time if he needs it. He will come back when he's adjusted and ready. Let him know that you will always be there for him.1
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