Well it's been 4 months since the break-up and we were still texting and calling occasionally. For the past 2 months we had been talking about going to a movie but when the day came, he didn't call to cancel..just texted he stayed home all day. I had been telling him how much I miss him as my guy and how much I wanted to get back together..this is through text. He came by 12/23 with a token Christmas gift when I bought him an expensive one. He stayed a short time and said again we'll see a movie "after the holidays..it's busy." You know what? I texted him New Year's day telling him I am confused and do not know what he is thinking...if we are going to date again or if he just thinks of me as a pal or buddy. I told him how I was feeling, like he is hesitating having a real relationship with me and how I wished he was with me Christmas Eve and New Year's Eve and now he's putting off that movie a few more weeks. I explained I deserved to have someone love me the way I love him and I just wish I knew what was up with him because he seems so standoffish lately. I have not texted or called since New Year's Day. Do you think he will ever at least tell me where I stand or what I mean to him or just discuss what's going on? I am going to be stubborn on this one and NEVER contact him again. HE has to call or text. I think he gets the sense I'm fed up, confused and am ready to get out there dating again. Am I doing the right thing?
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Absolutely doing the right thing. Yot gotta do you, and that's it. I know it's easier said than done. I've been through it, and I can honestly say that if you're putting more in than what your getting out, then it's not worth your time. Repayment as you will. Repayment for your time and devotion. Not financial repayment, but emotional and mental repayment.
My grandmother told me once, and some gentlemen on here might not like this, but "Always make sure that the man is a little more into you than you are into him." Makes perfect sense. DO NOT CONTACT HIM ANYMORE! And if he wants to talk to you, then he better call or send a letter. Texting is childish and gets people off the hook. No more texting people!1
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