she broke up with me 2 weeks ago and i've seen others say.. their ex's would text them here and there... but my ex actually wants to talk on the phone.. and when we talk on the phone.. she wants to know about my day.. and then she tells me about what she's done, how her friends/family are, etc... but she said she wouldn't ever bring up any other guys unless if I asked her about it... I don't think she still has feelings for me/wants me back... but I've honestly never had an ex.. who still wanted to talk to me on the phone.. even if they wanted to be friends.
Why does my ex still talk to me so much?
What Girls Said 2
She's being selfish. She doesn't love you anymore, she broke up with you, but she still wants you to be there because if you're not, she'll get lonely. Honestly, tell her to go find someone else to talk to. As long as she's doing it, you won't ever be able to move on. On the other hand, when she finally moves on, she'll dump your ass for good, because she won't feel lonely anymore.
I'm speaking from my experience... but I could be wrong. So use your best judgement...1
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The only reason she is still doing that is because she is lonely and there is no one else so far. She is still used to you and still likes doing what you two did while being together, in a way she didn't breakup completely. But trust me, when she finds someone who she likes, she's gonna want to talk to him instead of you, she won't have time or will for you. You're gonna get replaced. I'm in a same boat as you are right now, my ex broke up with me 6 months ago and he still kept calling me and acting like my boyfriend. It's only because he hasn't found anyone yet, simple loneliness and boredom. I realized this so I don't think about it anymore, no more analyzing. I stopped initiating contact long ago and I am being very platonic and cold towards him now. It's just a matter of time when he finds someone and forgets about me. I'm just already ready for that.0
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