So I was hanging out with my friends and his friends and then he randomly comes up to me saying "hey I think we're too young to date. I think we should be friends and start dating again in a year." I told him okay while smiling and trying not to cry. And then he just went back to his friends having a good time. And then I just left cause it hurt me even more. Especially because that was my first relationship. I thought it wouldn't be so bad so I decided to not move right away. But the next day I saw him with his friends and what it looked like he was flirting with his female friends and like he moved on already. Like playing with their hair, hugging them from behind etc. but he never did that to me which hurt even more. And he payed less attention to me. What's worse is I still haven't had my first kiss. I don't know if he broke up because I'm extremely shy or he just wasn't ready. I didn't ask him. Should I wait a year or does he sound like a jerk?
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Don't wait for a year. He's not worth waiting. From sounds of it, he's a jerk. No one is too young to love. If he has left you now, then he must be sorry 'cause you got to move on. Girls shouldn't wait for jerks. And don't regret that he hadn't given you a hug, 'cause someone better deserves to hug you. Stop thinking about him and focus on yourself. You're young and in that span of one year, you could meet your new one. You are wonderful and don't deserve to be dumped like that. His reasons are sooooo dumb. :)1
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