I was with my ex for 4 years, broke things off and he texts me niceties often... Last couple months he has been expressing some emotional stuff he's going through so recently I asked how he was and he said "I'm still going through a lot of personal anguish." I said I was going through stuff too and lots of changes and he said "sorry :( Life is full of changes. I liked being there to take care of you during hard times but unfortunately everything changes... and super fast."
Do you think his "personal anguish" has to do with me? Why do you think he would keep telling me he's going through personal stuff but no details?
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U don't spend 4 years with someone and let go easily. I'm sure that everyday there are thousands of small reminders of you. He def still feels for you. No doubt about that. If he's anything like me, u are a source of strength and weakness for him, which puts him in turmoil. If you have moved on the best thing to do is to distance yourself from him. He has to start learning to stand on his own. It's a terrible and hard thing to do. But necessary1