so we were in a relationship for almost 2 years, there were some problems like in any other relationship and right now we are going for different things, different goals in different places, so we would be in a long distance relationship. she hurt me because of her bipolar attitude and it was tough, something got her mad and she decided to break up with me, because she realized it wouldn't work as she wanted to, at some point it made me feel better because we wouldn't be able to see each other for years or even months, who knows and that would've been tough and would get us frustrated or at least me. she ended up on good terms, and she told me she still loves me and im a very special person for her, but its for the best... i said i agreed and i felt relieved because all of the tension the relationship was bringing on me, but at the same time i was kinda sad that it had to come to and end. she then told me we could be friends and talk or whatever, she asked me if i hated her, i said no even tho she was a bitch, but i kind of agreed to being friends with her, but right now im not so sure lol... like we would hit each other up from time to time but i know it would be really awkward, plus i really want to move on from it, even tho im not even sad right now, im just glad it happened that way. but should i stay friends with her? why? whats the real intention here? is it healthy? what should we talk about? i got no idea, im used to consider an ex as an enemy
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Just because two people Breakup doesn't mean they can't and don't Makeup and that it's Goodbye, my love forever. And with you rown "EX" who still Marks an X in her own softie spot here, dear, there may be motive in mind down this fine line , where she is asking For... Hit each other up from time to time.
You both had a 'Relationship for almost 2 years' and in This, you found out things were not always so cozy and koshore. Now that it is over, it is dealing with more raw deals on wheels, such as LDR, her 'bipolar attitude, and Other things on the love list that brings you both to 'Different' levels in time.
I believe that if you kept in contact, she probably wouldn't change, be harping and hopping on your heart strings More in store, and maybe drive you alone to drink because of the distance.
Tell her you think it best for Now to move on and both of you get settled in to the idea of Not being in any sort of relationship, and when you are back on track, you will send her a text, from time to time.
If she has a hissy fit, don't give in, being an enabler. That part of your life is Over like Rover, and Now... You are not in the doghouse with her anymore. It's not that an "EX" is this enemy, but she did go barking up the wrong tree.
Good luck. xx1