I give so much to them, I'm so nice and affectionate to them, I always give time to them, I won't see other people. I literally give them my all and they just go, all of them. I actually think I'll be single forever because so far, guys have just proved themselves to not be worth my efforts. They'll chase me initially but after a while I'm the one who seems more interested. They eventually just disappear. Even the nicest ones.
What is wrong with me? Why does nobody want me? Everybody gets bored of me, every single one of them. They think I'm beautiful, nice, funny... All of these things but still they go away! They make me feel like I'm so close to being happy with someone, to finally having a boyfriend then they all turn out the same. These are genuinely nice guys too :( I'm just here crying now because literally, my heart can't take much more. I've already give so much of it away.
Most Helpful Guy
It's because you expect it. It's because you feel that you are not good enough. You second guess yourself. You worry too much about what others think of you. We all here have accepted you are kind, beautiful, funny and smart but YOU have not. Have you discussed this with your Aunt? The blonde one?1
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Most Helpful Girl
Aww :( What happened with that guy you were you talking about meeting and going on a date with?
There is nothing wrong with you. You're a beautiful girl and from what I can tell on here, you have a very sweet personality. You won't be single forever, it only feels like that now because you're hurting. Don't give up on guys completely just because of your bad experiences, all guys aren't the same. So things didn't work out with some of them, there are other guys out there. You just have to be strong and be able to pick yourself back up. Don't attach your value or self-worth to these men, just because a relationship hasn't happened with any of them does NOT mean there's something wrong with you.3
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