My live in boyfriend had cheating on me and we broke up and I moved out. It has been three days since we broke up and he has been blowing up my phone calling, texting, voicemails. I haven't responed but I want to respond so bad. I'm hurting yes and what he did was wrong I just miss him.
Should I continute to not respond?
Most Helpful Guy
If you respond now and give him a way back in then you are simply teaching him that he can cheat on you and then fix it by blowing up your phone. Speaking from experience, someone who cheats is almost certainly going to cheat again so I would really advise you to cut him out of your life like a tumor.
Furthermore, this is an opportunity to take the pain your feeling and focus it into becoming a stronger person. Learn from this experience, use it to become a better, more interesting and all-around awesome human being. Before you know it the pain will pass, you'll learn a lot about yourself and if you decide to jump back into the dating pool you will have the benefit of learning from this experience and hopefully not have a repeat.
Furthermore, take control of your lines-of-communications. Sign up for a Google Voice number and learn how the leverage the hell out of that service. Then, only give out your GV number to family, friends and others because with it you have complete control over who gets to ring your phone, who doesn't, who goes straight to voicemail and who goes to some pre-recorded "Get lost" message.
Good luck with this experience and I hope you find a way to use the experience to your advantage. :)4
Most Helpful Girl
When someone I have been in a committed relationship cheats on me... I'm Done. It's happened two times. Both times, I've never spoken to them again. I won't do it. I won't give their lying asses one moment of my time. What are they going to say? Oh baby.. I'm so sorry! Oh baby.. i was drunk! Oh baby, you were mad at me and i was so horny, what was I supposed to do? (I love the last one... because it twists it into being YOUR fault) So, in the end, I would tell you no... move it along and get someone who deserves you... but that's just one woman's opinion.1