Should I continute to not respond?
Most Helpful Guy
If you respond now and give him a way back in then you are simply teaching him that he can cheat on you and then fix it by blowing up your phone. Speaking from experience, someone who cheats is almost certainly going to cheat again so I would really advise you to cut him out of your life like a tumor.
Furthermore, this is an opportunity to take the pain your feeling and focus it into becoming a stronger person. Learn from this experience, use it to become a better, more interesting and all-around awesome human being. Before you know it the pain will pass, you'll learn a lot about yourself and if you decide to jump back into the dating pool you will have the benefit of learning from this experience and hopefully not have a repeat.
Furthermore, take control of your lines-of-communications. Sign up for a Google Voice number and learn how the leverage the hell out of that service. Then, only give out your GV number to family, friends and others because with it you have complete control over who gets to ring your phone, who doesn't, who goes straight to voicemail and who goes to some pre-recorded "Get lost" message.
Good luck with this experience and I hope you find a way to use the experience to your advantage. :)4
Most Helpful Girl
... My live in boyfriend had cheating on me...
He no longer can be trusted, @gifts123, and if you take him back, give him a chance at romance, there is a good Chance he will do it again behind your back.
He has this track record now of being a Cheat sheet and grew accustomed to it where it was a life in which he thought he could have his sweet cake and eat it two by being with someone else And... You.
You could give him an opportunity to hear you out. And okay, even if you took him back tomorrow with your own sorrow, the memories of him being in between the sheets with another, will never go away you will always remind him of it and he probably Then... Would find another lame duck excuse to nest with another tweety bird.
Good luck. xx0