My boyfriend has hurt me a lot in the past because he has walked in and out of my life constantly over the past 2 years. He stays for a couple months and then leaves without reason for a few. And then he comes back and the cycle keeps repeating. We've back together for a while now and we were texting and he said he wanted to be friends and he told me it's because "I just don't want to hurt you again"... How do I respond to this?
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It's best that to understand what his motive is. Is he genuine about it? Do you think it is worth it?
A real man will stay through both amazing and difficult times. From what I am reading, he's entering your life as thought you're a shopping mall. Coming in and out whenever he wants
I know what I mentioned is harsh. But it is the truth. Firmly say no. Stand for your grounds. Protect your dignity
I can see that you still love him. However, does he love you? Genuinely love you? At the end of the day, it is your choice to decide0