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It sounds with the :That's going to be us" video raw deal, it was more of a Big Ordeal and you have what I always refer to on here, dear, as "Cold duck feet." This is when someone is scared of Commitment and doesn't want to be hooked at the hip right now, nor is ready nor raring to be two Birds of a feather.
She has all of these qualities that turned you on and probably still Do.. Deep down. However, not seeing her for awhile, I believe that you will realize to your own eyes, that you will be Missing the Kissing. But as Glenda said to Dorothy in the Wizard of Oz: You wouldn't have believed me, you had to find out on your own.
You could sit her down, get off of line, tell her face to face, that things are going too fast , at you want to slow this down a notch and go slow, and for now, just see what happens
You could also take a long break, you could tell her, that you have personal issues that you need to address on your own, and give yourself some space and some time to find out if love is where the heart is Or... No place like home on my own alone.
Of course, there is the old friend wheeling and dealing but whatever you do, should you decide to go this way, don't make it a Friends with benefits naughty and nice with spice sticky situation... That gets complicated and someone always gets the short end of the broom stick.
Good luck. xx