You still think of them? Share your experience if any.
Most Helpful Guy
My first ex and myself were hopelessly in love (or I thought so). She was talking about marriage and kids with me, and a month later, I find out she has been cheating on me. I found solid proof, and she didn't deny. But when I said I wanted to break up, her words were something like this:-
"If you dump me, it's your loss. A gorgeous girl like myself can find a much better looking boyfriend than you with the snap of a finger, but an ordinary looking guy like yourself would struggle to find any girlfriend at all, let alone someone as pretty as me".
Sometimes I wonder if her words did come true, because I just had one rebound relationship after that (which lasted 2 months), and have been single for almost 5 years now.
But I stopped thinking about her within days, though.
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Most Helpful Girl
Yeap, 7 months ago. We were together for almost 4 years. While we were planing a trip to Norway, few days before the trip he just said that he can't do this anymore, that he doesn't love me as much as he did before, that the excitement is gone and that he wants to be single. It was out of the blue, I had no idea how he was feeling. It was a shock to me. I literally never experienced anything like it, the pain is unique. Like knives through my whole body. I thought I'm not gonna survive. But here I am, still alive and kickin! It will probably take some more time for me to recover fully, but I'm on the right path. The only problem is that he still wants to be in my life and I am not sure if I want that. I got over him as a boyfriend but I do miss him as a person sometimes. My life is pretty much empty without him, giving that we lived together, now I live alone. But I don't worry, I'll get through this! :)