Is my Ex a male borderline?
What Guys Said 1
I can't honestly say for sure, even though I work with borderline patients at my hospital. It mostly looks like he has high expectations and you weren't meeting them. At the very least he is pretty radical in his dating (not always a good thing). But I don't think you should blame yourself or feel bad for trying a second time. So many people feel bad when they try to give it a second shot and it fails. We aren't perfect beings so when we try again, it's a good sign of our own integrity and I see that you are trying to keep things realistic but also exercise that faith of elevating yourself beyond they typical corruptible person. You tried, and it failed. Don't beat yourself up about it. He made his choices and you made yours. I encourage you to find a guy who is less 'borderline' in action and meet a guy who is more solid in his decisions. I always feel like I sound sexist when I say this to people, but I think the women retain the rights to be a little crazy from time to time. It's up to the guy to be the pillar girls hold on to when things start to spiral out of control. Not always 100% because we guys also need a strong woman to grab onto for support when the floor falls out from us. And I feel like you are that strong woman, you just need a solid guy, so get out there and find him. Don't put any more effort into a quicksand guy and act smarter than your surface emotions with this guy.
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