So my ex dumped me a week ago, because of the distance and we wouldn't work out like that but wanted to remain friends, i said okay, later i called her and said that it wouldn't be good for me, so i told her that i needed some time without contact.. she gently said okay, she understood... in which case, i dont think she doesn't even care about the breakup lol, and i dont want to fall in that false hope that by talking to her we would get back together or anything, nonetheless i have a question, who would have to be the first one to break the NC here? since i was the one that asked it i thought it had to be me, but anyways i broke it because i needed to ask her for something and she wasn't nice to me, afterward she asked me something and i said i couldnt do it (truth) she said "its okay" and i said ok and then we haven't spoken ever since. in this case who would have to be the one breaking the no contact? the dumpee or the dumper? PS: she took me for granted and i want to think that maybe she will miss me and hmu later on realizing shit but then again, false hopes there on which i dont want to rely, I just want to move on even tho its hard and i really love her.
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Watch coah corey wayne's video on youtube. You'll learn a lot.
I myself have been kick in the butt recently. And I have decided not to try to get him back at all. Plus I realized I'm a rebound which never happened to me before.
Franckly it sucks.
If she let you go, she does not care as much as you do. You'll find someone better.
Just take your time, don't rush, don't seem needy and live for yourself first.
"The strongest person in a relationship is the one who cares less".1
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