I just don't want to lose her in my life.. but it sounds from this text.. that she wants nothing to do with me.. but maybe if I give her enough space.. she will start to miss talking to me.. I honestly don't know what to think
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No maybe not... she wants to keep contact but not as much as you guys did when you were together. And you can't really be friends. Friends after being boyfriends is extremely rare. The only guy I have kept contact with was my first love when I was 19, and today I'm 30, and we send each other a message probably once a year!
You will be naturally moving on! You will see. Once you meet another girl that is right for you, you will naturally detach yourself from your ex/friend.
Plus it is more healthy for you AND for the girl you'll meet in the future.
I advice you never hang on to the past or you'll mess the present AND your future.
At least that is my advice :)
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