" I have been busy lately but also, I think it's better if we don't talk as much as we would've when we were together. I think the space is nice and that'll establish an even better friendship because we would know what it's like to be actual friends instead of having almost everything we had while we were together. I think talking everyday for hours is too much how it was when we were in a relationship and that it should be an occasional thing. Like I'm not saying I don't value our friendship or that I don't want to talk to you. I'm just saying that us texting and talking occasionally is better, in my opinion. Also, it'll help us stray away from conversations on our relationship bc there will be other things to talk about."
I just don't want to lose her in my life.. but it sounds from this text.. that she wants nothing to do with me.. but maybe if I give her enough space.. she will start to miss talking to me.. I honestly don't know what to think
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The space is intended for her growth as a person.
It isn't intended for her to realize what she lost, and try to get you back.
So, although that seems like a nice thought understand that may not happen.
She wants you in her life... but at the same time she wants distance.
She doesn't want to continue acting like a couple when you both aren't.
You have no choice at this point but to give her space.
If you do anything else you will come across as needy or desperate which is a major turn off. Those traits further tend to push a person away.
Respect that she wants space and move on with your life.
Yes, it will be hard.
But you cannot wait around in hopes that she will eventually want you back.
That may or may not be a possibility.0
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