My ex broke up with me a little over a week ago.. Before doing so, he asked me twice if we could go out to talk, eventually he decided to just do it by text. Don't really know why he changed his mind about meeting with me. I was reeeeally sad (couldn't stop tearing up at the mear thought of him). He immediately said that he wants to stay friends if i'd let him, and that we should still meet to talk. I was too mad/sad to accept the offer and just ignored him. We really haven't been talking since, but i'm ready to talk with him at least one last time (or to initiaite the friendship). Is it a good idea to ask him out for coffee? I'm afraid that he doesn't want to or care to see me again... Thoughts?
- Yes, go for coffee with himVote A
- No, leave it aloneVote B
Most Helpful Guy
Get some proper closure but not friend please. Make it a proper goodbye.
Also... for the love of god... not "coffee". Don't go for "coffee" . That means something else. That's like before netflix and chill before netflix and chill.0
Most Helpful Girl
Just because two people breakup doesn't mean they can't and don't Makeup, @GirlAsksBoy and tha tit's Goodbye, my love forever. And with an 'EX' who still marks an X in your own softie spot, there now has come the time down the love line when You... Want to ask him out for coffee.
Her was an Honest John in saying that he wants you both as 'Friends' because he doesn't want you totally out of his life. And even though you think it might be over or there was this "Mutual" anything, contact him for Joe, see where you stand as of now, and if 'Anything'... Go slow with the flow.
Good luck. xx0