i met him by online dating, we talked online for three months, both wanted marriage, he said if everything worked out, he wanted things to go faster. he came to see me during the holiday, we spent ten days together all day and night. and when he went back, two weeks later, he broke up with me, because he thought he would miss more, but he didn't, he did like me, but not enough to marry, he wanted to meet new guys , wanted me to be happy. he was polite, didn't want to hurt me, but i couldnt accept it, the next day , we talked again, he said it didn't mean there was definitely no chance at all. he would give it a few weeks to go. we set up a time to talk the next day, i listened to some friends advice , sent him a message telling him my feelings for him that i love him so much. when he saw the message, he was so happy, he wanted to talk, but i didn't wait for him, i was scared that he would say no again. the next day i sent him messages , wanted to talk but he didn't reply, the next day he replied, said he was sick. i sent some messages to comfort him, then the next day he replied, much better, i just sent one message, then left. because my friends told me if he wanted me back, he would contact me. but he didn't. three days later, i contacted him again, but no reply till now. it is about twently days since he said broke up.. i love him so much, he is so nice, i am a shy person , afraid to tell people my feelings. i want him to be back, would things be different if i have waited for him that night? will he be back? please help me out , i love him so much.
- yes, he willVote A
- no, he won't.Vote B
Most Helpful Guy
It doesn't sound like he wants you back. It's quite convenient that he would be sick all of a sudden, especially when he said he couldn't make a commitment now.0
Most Helpful Girl
I'm so sorry this happened to you but I guess your friends are right. If he wants you, he'll come back. After all, you've done your part. I mean, you've told him honestly your feelings for him and you've already sent him a couple of messages and you got no reply. Guys are very literal generally speaking. You don't have to go deeper into what they say and what they show to know what they mean. If he likes you, he will do things to let you know. If he doesn't, you'll keep wondering if he does or not. This is just coming from me though. You better move on. But it's still all up to you. Go girl! You are wonderful and you don't have to waste time pondering about if he'll come back or not. It may be tough to start moving on but definitely you'll get there. :)2