Now okay, so one weekend, on a birthday, we have this night out to celebrate her birthday, during it I overhear her friends discussing me and take it the worse way possible, plus being under influence at the time meant I overreacted just a little (not sarcasm, actually just a little). But anyway that's not major, the next day we wake up at Herz everything is super cutesy and lovely and some people are still around from the night before, when they have left we are still happy, kissing etc. Then we talk about the night before and everything gets stress, we decide to distract ourselves and get out for some air, go and have a yummy lunch together actually, she says that she wants a little time to herself after what happened last night and we part earlyish, then we chat lightly and funly into the night about numerous things, wish each other goodnight etc. The next morning I get a message saying we need to talk, her mum brings her over, she drops my things from hers off at my place and tells me we need to break up, that it was getting too intense, we are 19 and have been dating coming upon 2 years. She's clearly upset during this as am I, though not showing it as much.
When she leaves crying I order flowers to hers for the next day, then follow to make every mistake in the book, messaging too much, asking everything to no response, I even tried calling twice, you get the idea, two mornings later we meet up to talk in person, I'm confident about everything and have already started working on me, she says she still loves me, find me attractive etc. But won't give it another shot because... she doesn't want to, she says she still has feeling and wants to keep in contact, we casual message the rest of that week slightly untili tell her i miss seeing her and we arrange to meet a week on Sunday for lunch cont.
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Break your phone and cut the power to your computer. You've pushed way too hard to get her back at this point. It's rough I know but it's just better to walk away at this point. Plus you really don't want to be with a girl who doesn't want to work things out.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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