how do you cope after a break up? do you just move on with your life? do you still care? do you not care? do you hate them? are you happy to be over with it? how long does it take before you move on? do you still think about them? and finally what do you do to get over an ex?
its a lot but you really only have to answer one.
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Not long ago I went thru Something like a breakup. I don't know if you can relate to what it's like for me but here's an example. If all my emotions were written seperate on each card in a deck. One card says "why didn't I see it coming" another may say "where do I go from here" there was one card that popped in mind, but I quickly put it back. Later it came up again, still not ready to take it, but something in the back of mind told me when all was over this was the only one that I could keep. But not now. It's been 2 months since I've heard from her, and probably never will again.
That one card is all I'm carring in my hand today, not ready quite yet to hold on it for good, there are days I still want to throw it back in the deck sometimes. The card says it's "ok to let go" she has. Life somehow keeps going. We do find our way out of the darkness. I do know that all the good things that were there will still be there even if I let go. Hopefully it won't take you as long as me. Good luck0