Trying to do no contact with an ex who broke up with me is so hard... Especially cause I genuinely feel there could be so much more potential to our relationship... but I know you can't ever beg or try to conveince people of anything... but it's like "ugh I really want to text them" I guess it doesn't help that since we started getting close in Jan... up until yesterday (including our breakup a few weeks ago) we basically only went 3-4-5 days without talking... Honestly.. this is why I tell people to IMMEDIATELY go no contact now.. I tried the other way.. and it DOES NOT WORK.
Most Helpful Girl
Just because two people Breakup doesn't meant they can't and don't Makeup and that it's Goodbye, my love forever. And as an "EX" you still Mark an X in your own softie spot here, dear, there may come a time down this lonely love line, when You... Contact her because it is so hard.
No harm, even if you want to be friends, just to say "Hi" and ask how she is feeling. Many couples who have split get together many times to either be friends with or without benefits or even to possibly think of reuniting.
Although I am not completely on board with the back to the bed deal, I do think that a nice healthy friendship to Begin anew Beguine is Nice to nurse and nurture.
But if it was a Bad Breakup, then better to stay clear here, dear.
Good luck. xx0
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Most Helpful Guy
I am currently doing no contact with a girl I really cared about, but we chose to mutually and peacefully break up due to long distance. This has actually made it harder because there was nothing wrong with us... and we both want to keep in touch, but decided at least a few months of no contact to help us move on, but I want to know she is doing okay so badly...1