I've met my EX during my backpacking trip. I had to fly back home so I broke up with her. I made it clear that we were done. Im the type of person who has to isolate himself from his EXes in order to get over and move on. I dont have a girlfriend at the time but I'm hanging out with few girls.
For the past 3 months I've been ignoring all her texts and phone calls. Yesterday I got a text from her - "next weekend I'm coming to your city". I'm shocked. I'm in WTF mode lol!
I dont want to be a total a$shole but I also dont really want to talk/see her. I almost got over her.
Guys and girls what should I do?
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You shouldn't meet with her at all, that should make it really clear to her that the two of you are done.
The only possible reason I can think of to respond to any of her texts or phone calls is if she knows your address in the city and might show up at your door. If she does, then send a text that clearly states that you aren't going to meet with her, that she should not seek you out while she is there and that she needs to stop trying to contact you.
No need to lie or make up some story why you can't meet. That will just make her think that you would have met her if her timing had been better. Handle this like a man, she's your ex, treat her like one.0