I've been wanting my ex back since the breakup.. which happened like 3-4 weeks ago... we talked today.. and she was like "I don't want to deal with hypotheticals/possibilities of getting back together because that's not how I feel at the present time and I don't want to think of a chance of me changing my mind in the future" Honestly.. now.. I'm just like f it.. we aren't gonna ever get together again and 99.9 percent she's over me and has no feelings.. so I don't even care anymore.. I literally just gave up 100 percent hope of us getting back together... if we ever do.. it will be a complete shock.. I know you shouldn't always trust people when they say "my mind won't ever change" because people change their minds day to day week to week month to month year to year.. but at this point.. I don't want to hurt myself over thinking about what ifs.. so it's better if I just have it cemented in my head we won't ever get back together and not care anymore..
Most Helpful Girl
I broke up recently and I wanted him back prob the next few days, thinking I could maybe give the relationship another go in maybe a month or so. I then analyzed why I actually broke up w/him and discovered I don't want him back because he was never the man I really wanted him to be (turned out to be very egotistical). Your ex is an ex for a reason, don't even try to patch it up. Your heart needs to heal first, then see if you really want her back, after you heal and get over her you prob won't want her back.0
Most Helpful Guy
Eventually yes. It's only been 3-4 weeks and that's no time at all for things like this to heal.
Look, you never forget people in your life, especially important people. I still fondly remember girls I dated over 40 years ago. I fondly remember my parents who passed away. I fondly remember friends.
You just don't forget people. But you do move on. It just takes time. You have room in your heart for many people in your life. Sometimes you just need some time before you open the door for someone else. There will be others, but you'll never forget those who came before.0