What you all think about this & what should I do? Thanks!
Most Helpful Guy
Let me analyze a bit first : I think you misinterpreted his showing off his new car. He was just trying to get your attention, he didn't mean to brag.
The fact that your mutual friends let you know about him, means that he must have talked with them about how matters are with you, he does intend to get back together.
It would be necessary to know who started the fight and how you got into it. If it was you who started it, he really can't do anything to calm you down, he says it's up to you because he can't change your sentiment toward him.
He offered you financial help, because he must have cared about how you felt, if you didn't mean anything to him, he would have never made such a move.
Even though you say he doesn't know what he wants in life, you should reply to his email, but keep it short like : "I don't know what to say, but I wanted to let you know that I got your email and have though about matters between us. I want you to be honest with me now, say what you have to say"
(If this is not helpful, please bear in mind that I'm 10 years younger), that's what I'd do if I were you.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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Most Helpful Girl
Well you guys should have a talk about the issue that made him leave. His reactions was bad. But what was the argument about? If you want to get back with him you guys need to resolve that issue.
So basically have a talk.
Guys can be selfidh and I don't aprove him leaving you when you were going through such hard times. If you want to get back with him, because that's what he is saying, can you have trust in him or will he disappear the next time your argue?
Ask yourself if you are willing to take that risk and if you are talk to him about it, CALMLY0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE