I don’t know what happened. There this new guy at work he’s been ere a week. I think he’s cute and thinks I’m cute and he heard IM single. So he comes up to me and gives me his number. We text for a few weeks until one night he calls me its 12 am I just got off work I work the night shift everyday. He invites me over. Now at this point I already know whats about to happen. If a guy is inviting a girl over to his place at 12am its not to watch a movie. I think about it and I go to his house. We have sex and I THOUGHT that was the end of it and I would have been ok with that.
The next day he texts me and we talk all day he invites me over again we have sex. This goes on for 3 weeks. During the process he makes it clear that “YOUR NOT MY GF” He tells me this often. He brought me around his friends or when ever he's in a bind he calls me. He has moments where he's acts like a boyfriend. Where he will cook my diner and breakfast or open doors or beg me to spend the night. Some night we never had sex just cuddle.
Now its been 3 days and we have not spoken to each other. He has not called/texted me nor have I. I just don’t know how I ended up here. How did I end up in a friends with benefits. It just happened.
Most Helpful Guy
You ended up like this by spreading your legs everytime he called. You can end it just as easy as saying a few words.0
Most Helpful Girl
How? You put out without discussing what your relationship would be like.
Don't worry girlie, it happens to the best of us.
As soon as they have a taste they don't want the whole enchilada.
We're good enough to fuck, but not girlfriend material, oh no0