My ex broke up with me compltely out of the blue back in January. He was my first love and first everything really. I was completely broken but healed due to the fact I thought he cared about when we were together and I didn't have any regrets.
Last night, a mutual friend of ours told me that he said he didn't give a f*ck about anyone he's ever slept with. Now I'm feeling so used and have so much regret over everything. If I had a time machine, I'd go back and make sure this never ever started, but I can't :( He really acted like he cared about me but he was obviously just a piece of sh*t.
Any ideas on how to deal with all this regret?
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I've dated my fair share of guys, they were all completely wrong for me but I didn't realise that until it ended. Even though most of the "relationships" didn't end well I don't despise or regret any of them. At all. Because the way I see it is that through it all I learned something new each and everytime about myself, about others, I grew and improved. If I hadn't dated all these guys I wouldn't have been at that exact location when I met my fiancé.
It hurts everytime and eventhough THEY might not be worth it, someone will. That person will be worth all the pain you felt through every relationship that ended.1