My friend is going out with a girl who is obviously messed up. She treats him terribly and acts like she owns him. She freaks out and cries whenever he goes to see another girl, talks to a girl, or even looks at a girl. Yet she talks to him about who she would dump him for and she has even cheated on him. she is also mentally unstable and has hurt herself when he was talking about dumping her. The only reason he is with her is because he thinks that he could never get anyone else. I want to be happier he seems really upset all the time and he thinks that being with her will make him happy but in reality she is the center of the entire problem.How can I convince him to break up with her?
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you can't convince him. if he KNOWS that she will hurt herself he is staying with her because he is scared of that happening because if she DID hurt herself he would be blaming himself the entire time and feel guilty. you can tell him that she is controling his life and that as a friend you don't wanna see him go through this...but if he dosen't wanna hurt her like that then I doubt that he will break up with her...honestly, if you give it time he will come to his senses...my friends and I tried to convince a male friend about this sort of thing but we gave up cause it didn't work and eventually the guy met another girl and dumped the old one...maybe you can try introducing him to some new girls who would flirt with him...some attractive girls. you should befriend some attractive girls and introduce them to him and see what happens!-->worked for my friend...
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