Hey girls and boys, my boyfriend and I dated like 2 months. we were friends before that for 6 months. He broke up with me because of stuff going on in his life/drugs but we agreed to be friends. anyway, I message him to chill 2 months after the breakup and he responds by giving me a list of specific days he is free and saying that his schedule so far is not really certain and that we'll be in touch. I then pick a few of those days (that he suggested) that work for me and msg him back asking him if we can chill then. He never messaged me back and all the days passed. I know he read the msg.
girls: how would you treat this situation? and what do you think is going on?
boys: why do boys do this? is it common? I DID ask him to let me know when he was free in the msg but why would he give specific day's if he didn't wanna see me? do boys do this sort of thing?
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I'm not sure but I think I have seen a similar question couple of weeks ago. It's nothing special that he gave you a list of days or anything.
Here is a very important thing I can tell you to help out; girls, don't be friends with a guy that you haven't moved on yet, you're messing yourselves up. Being friends with someone that broke you down or did something to you in the past is a very complicated story, if you're not up to it and doing it perfectly then just don't do it, don't stay in touch. So now decide on what you want, do you just want to be his friend, or you're trying to get him back? is he going to be of any use to you as a friend? if he is like that as a friend then why are you going through this crap?
Do not be in touch with someone that isn't being on the same level of "appreciating", "needing" and "admiration" you are giving them.1