alright so i met my first love over 3 years ago and since then we have been up and down with break ups but we have also been through a lot of good and happy times aswel. 10 weeks ago but it came to an end again and even though we broke up i still didn't feel like it was actually over like she moved out of the house we were living in but we were still hanging out sleeping together and pretty much still doing everything even though we were single. i then found out that 3 days later a person that she rebounds with in the past break ups is in the picture and she slept with him3 days after we broke up which hurt me alot! but i accepted it and was still willing to work things out. anyways since the break up she started to change she started lying to me alot! about everything and started smoking pot and now is into taking pills it got to a point where i was buying her flowers ad chocolates and actually begging to want her back (which yes i know is the wrong way to go about it) but i love her and i want things back the way they use to be. one day when we were hanging out a message came up on her phone saying these going away dates so i asked her about it and she said no its nothing she continued to lie to me about this holiday off hers up until the day she left the rebound guy that she slept with lives 15 hours away from where she lives and she was going to see him for 2 weeks which cut me deep like I've been at her feet wantingto work this out and now she's with him on a holiday! she also told me that when she gets home she wants to work things out with me which i was dumb enough to believe. so she got back and i find out that they're now dating and she doesn't even know him like they're hung out in person for like 2 weeks then to further it she tells him she loves him and he bought her a puppy and his moving here in 6 weeks to move into a home together!! but they she still ringing me up crying saying she wants to be wth me and stuff and im so over it like she has hurt mealot
Help and advice about what to do with the situation im in about my ex girlfriend?
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Learn from this experince and dont try to take back this girl at all costs seriously bc it look like she treated you very bad you need to wake up before you lose your entire pride and get more issue you could see more bad things from that bad girl and you could end up with serious depression that need serious help. Now I can gurantee you there's million better girls than that girl I know you love her but she dont even if she do its based on her rules which means she will sex with the puppy guy while telling you she's n love with you and want the things work again wow then followed by sex with the puppy guy. Leave her find new girl there's no reason to stay with that girl also you should lefted her when you knew about her guy but you accept it! That also another big mistake. Any way the solution is leave her no matter what you heart tell focus on the reality1
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