Most Helpful Girl
Man that's harsh. :( I'm so sorry that u are going through this. Having kids in the mix of all this is never easy. If she's willing to just walk out in you and the kids she's not a good mother or girlfriend. She doesn't deserve u or your beautiful baby's. Like u said she obviously doesn't only have eyes for u, she's a liar and possibly a cheat. I wouldn't entertain her. Don't let her think she can just come back when she needs something or "misses" you when it was so easy for her to leave u for another man. You derseve better, your kids deserve better. U are their daddy and they look up to u. Its your jib to protect tbem. Don't let her win. Be strong, not just for u but for your little ones
Most Helpful Guy
i feel sorry for you, but you have to be strong, not just for you but for your kids as well. and try to get custody of them, they deserve a parent who is always there for them and not someone who flakes out and thinks he or she can come back whenever they want to. Women these days have no morals , i have seen it more then once. this past year alone, after my ex girlfriend who miscarried our child, left me and became distant, cold and hateful towards me, i tried dating 4 different women. 4 horrible experiences, while im actually a really cool relaxed and sincere guy, im not perfect but i try to be the best i can. they drop you as soon as you make a mistake, sometimes even without doing anything wrong. i blame feminism for it, women these days grow up with everyone telling them, that they can do what ever the FUCK they want. i got no respect from any of my past girlfriends, either they cheated on me or took me for granted. i really want to become a father, and im trying. i would be proud in your situation, i rather raise my kid on my own then have a slut around in the house. my recent ex girlfriend, has a 4 yo daughter, and i adored that little girl, she sometimes fell asleep in my arms. i feel sorry for her, her dad is a douchebag who barely shows any interest and her mom is completely irresponsible. a few days ago i did text her that i dont want to have anything to do with her anymore, but i won't forget about that little girl her birthday. she will get a present from me, because in my opinion that little girl deserves it. i made her a promise and ill keep it. im also very hurt and angry but i will give me ex girlfriend a reality check, and return her a gift she gave me. not that i think it will make any different but i do it for me, and for that little girl. she may hate me but if she changes some of her ways just so that little girl has a better outcome, i can tell myself i did the wright thing. so stay strong bro, for your kids. be happy you have them with you, instead that stupid bitch and this other guy. it would kill me having other men hanging around my children, i would fucking kill them if they were doing irrespnsibile things in the pressence of my children. so be happy you know your kids are doing ok. get your friends over, do fun things, talk to your parents and do not even contact that ex bitch of yours.