So me and my girl have been together for a year now and its not really getting any better and the love that I felt for her doesn't feel as strong. There is this girl I've known for a while and I just recently looked into her eyes properly or something I guess cause I realized how she makes me feel, its like something I've never felt before and we are connecting on a whole different level compared to my girlfriend. I know this is wrong of me but I can't get this girl out of my mind and I could see me spending my life with her. She feels much the same way and how we feel is becoming abit obvious to others even though we haven't even made sexual contact or anything of the sort. Its okay to be happy right? What do I do?
Most Helpful Girl
... And it's not really getting any better...
With this being said and you know the truth in your own head, you are Now being this Honest John in Openly admitting that you are Smitten... In love with another girl.
Before jumping back into the saddle, it is best to tell your current cutie that may not be such a honey right now, that you don't want to be hooked a the hip with her anymore, that you want to be free and give yourselves a chance to grow elsewhere.
Start out slow with your flow with this newbie, feel her out. Nurse and nurture a nice friendship, which apparently you have already started, and perhaps you will both find that you will one day be riding off into the sunset.. happily ever after.
Good luck. xx0
Most Helpful Guy
If you truly think this other girl is better for you, then you should probably go for it, even though unfortunately you'll hurt your current girl.1