This is my second post here. I know that anyone who will read my post will curse me because of what i have done. Me and my girlfriend were not married, but my plan is to marry her. We've been together for about 5 years. i only started working just last year and also ended earlier this year. We always argue, coz we are both short tempered and cranky. But even though we are both aware of our personality, we still took the risks of teasing one another, then the jokes and teasing will turn into a more personal and offensive exchanges of words. But me, i sometimes instantly approach her and be sorry. And even though we are like that at times, we do laugh hard together, make fun of something or someone together. And now, i am paying the price of what i did about a year ago. In our 5 years of being together, i have never cheated on her until last year. I even dont want to be surrounded with girls, because she's a really jealous type of girl. So now, i can't explain to my self, to her, to my family, how such a very immoral thing happened to me, to my family. Coz, i really miss her, i miss my son. What should i do? Im asking for help, i already knew what kind of thing i have done, so please don't shove it on my face guys, cause im already paying for it, all i want is that all you guys here be supportive about getting my family back. Thanks guys
Most Helpful Girl
Anyone who knows me, @allmessedup00 knows I am Not one to point fingers, but give as much helpful advice in Any matter, no matter what the 'Matter, and yours is no exception to my golden goose rule.
You made a mistake and probably will have to pay for it on your own end with the girl from yesterday who had your child, I am assuming, and now wants you to either pay her for this or make you part of her life and your Child's... You need to First clear this up with her.
Now that your Other half has booked with your son, you do have rights and if she refuses to let you see him, get a lawyer and handle it with Care... You may have no choice in This.. Matter.
She probably will never forgive and forget, many women hold grudges with something this bad, sad as it is.
However, I am sure it taught you a hard lesson in love and in life, and you will probably yourself, no Matter, have to pay the price for the rest of your life.
We all make mistakes, no one is perfect. If it is meant to be, God will bring it to Be again and if not, move on but for goodness sake, don't let her have the last word and upper hand with your own son.
Good luck. xx2
Most Helpful Guy
Depending on where you live, I'm sure the law gives you the right to visit your child. If your girlfriend is not cooperative, you may have to consult with a lawyer. As for getting your family back, it sounds like that ship has already sailed. Your girlfriend doesn't trust you anymore because you cheated; you can't press the Undo button on that. The best you can hope for at this point is visitation with your child.6